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BDSM, short  for bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism, and masochism, refers to sexual practices that involve power dynamics, role-playing, and consensual exploration of intense sensations. 

Tools that used are  stilettoes, leather whip, leather under garments, feathers, velvet, chains, lit candles (low temperature), light mutilation  of the skin. Ropes and hand cuffs. Sometimes blindfolds  are used.   There are two roles played the superior and the subordinate. The roles can be switched intermittently. The one playing the dominant role is called the “dom”. The submissive one is called “sub”. This kind of sexual practice is also known as sadomasochism. Sadistic and masochistic behaviour played out.  Can be therapeutic for those trying to work out any childhood issues.  

Dominatrix are dominant female who get paid to be dominant in such matters. And it seems to be trending worldwide at the moment.

I have heard most women’s response to such sexual exploration as “very shiok”. 

Do practiced thoughtfully and with eagerness and informed consent, BDSM can provide a unique opportunity for lovers to deepen their emotional and physical connection. It involves trust, communication, and mutual respect, allowing partners to explore their desires and boundaries openly. The power exchange dynamics can create a strong sense of intimacy, vulnerability, and trust, enhancing emotional bonding. 

Start with blindfold and cuffs. Notch up the intensity with dripping candles. Special candles with lower temperature can be bought. Place the candle higher up when it drips so it’s not too scorching on the skin. Try feathers and chains.

Additionally, when  doing  BDSM it helps if both partners can communicate well. Strong communication skills and negotiation, promoting a deeper understanding of each other’s needs and desires.  Of course in  Bdsm you can have more than two people involved. 

 Regardless of how many persons are involved, or the tools used,  do remember to engage in BDSM practices responsibly, and with respect for all parties involved.